The Family is the first Community

How we approach the world

We don't come into the world like this, by chance, or rather I believe that our parents wanted us, so our coming into the world is something special, something that always speaks of love.
So the first community we arrive at is the family, the one made by the parents, and if there are brothers, which widens, Then, to relatives.

The identity

which is expressed inmembership, con traditions, ways of approaching everyday life, con the story that is passed down through generations through the stories of elderly people, it's there most important feature, if not the foundation.
In the beginning we are defenseless in the world and ours protection I'm the parents. We calmly learn to recognize voices, sounds, colors, and our name that everyone repeats to us in an infinite loop, with smiles and verses that say nothing other than making us smile.
Shortly afterwards we find one new community, the nursery, or nursery school, we begin to compare ourselves with our peers... A comparison which in reality is a constant growth, accompanied by loving teachers who care as if we were their children, or at least that's how it should be.

The instructions

they come from the family. Il respect for everyone's time and space within the four walls of the house, as well as the make yourself available e help, they are the instructions that we also perceive indirectly, because they are helpless and small, we receive them.
We should, crescendo, be able to rework them e, in our turn, transmit them, as well as applying them every day. The character and the new communities we enter, such as school, the sports team, the company, they should be tests for what we have learned, and they should be an incentive to improve ourselves.
Character differentiates us, but the basic instructions are the same. It is up to us to put them into practice and rediscover the sense of the first community in all those we enter.

The church

whatever it is, it's one extended family, e accoglie dai più piccoli ai più grandi, e ripropone, or at least that's how it should be, le medesime istruzioni di vita, il vivere nel rispetto del prossimo, l’aiutarsi senza pretese, il dedicarsi con amore a chi ha più necessità.
Ciascuno di noi ha le stesse potenzialità, e può dedicarsi al prossimo anche tramite la vocazione. L’estremo del rispetto del prossimo, secondo l’insegnamento del cuore.

L’ufficio

Una piccola, o grande secondo il numero dei partecipanti, comunità di scopo, in cui a mio parere non dovremmo perdere di vista i medesimi valori che ci sono stati insegnati e abbiamo appreso fin dalla tenera età, e dovremmo portarli anche in questa comunità che spesso ci occupa per la maggior parte della giornata.
Sembra difficile viversi come ci hanno insegnato e come abbiamo imparato, but it's actually simpler than you might think, everything is born and returns to us, and so It's up to us to improve our communities.